What hope looks like for a 10 year old (Vishal's Inspiring Story)

When you’re ten years old, how do you make sense of a life of poverty and yet be filled with optimism and confidence for the future? This is what hope looks like for Vishal.

Not only is Vishal believing in his personal success, but he is looking beyond to how he can make a difference to the lives of other children like him and to bring about long term change in his village. We are so proud of this great kid!

I am Vishal and I am 10 years old. I live in Parmawala Village in the Indian jungle. I’m in Grade 3 at school. My favourite thing is football but mostly we do not have a ball to play with because the big boys steal it. I go to the Project Help Education Centre where there are 48 kids of all ages in my class. Some of us go to the government school during the day but I don’t go all the time, especially during the monsoon rains and when it’s too hot. My feet get blisters which do not go away quickly, so I do not like walking. Sometimes after I walk the long distance even my teacher is mostly not there, so instead I would rather be playing with my friends all day long.

At first I didn’t want to go to Project Help but my mother made me go. I wanted to be with my friends instead, where we would hang and not do much and just make a football, or tease the cattle and get into trouble. But now I realise that when I study hard I can hope to see my dreams come true.

As I told you I am from Parmawala Village which is a very poor place in the jungles. Here most people do not know about us except for Project Help. I live in a very small hut with my mother, my father, my brother and sister. They all work hard to keep us surviving every day. My mother stays inside the house and she is ill most of the time. When she has energy she will cook and do hard work housekeeping too. My sister and brother are labourers in other people’s fields, maybe they will not even earn 100 rupees ($2AUS) a day. My father is also a labourer in the fields and he has short luck in his life. Now he mostly spends all the money by getting drunk and he quarrels at the end of the day. I stay away from him when he is like this but it is difficult when I am trying to get to sleep.

So my mother insisted I go to the Project Help Centre where my teacher is Rakhi. I think she is kind and beautiful and I love her. At first I was naughty and cheeky but Rakhi was patient and keeped on smiling. She did not hit me with the stick like the teacher at the government school. Instead Rakhi asked me to help her to clean and tidy the class before and after our lessons along with some of the other children. I feel very proud and important for Rakhi to give me this responsibility so I want to work hard for her in my studies too.  

Because of my hard work I am learning more things and achieving higher grades. My mother is very proud of me and she says I am changing to be a happy and more responsible boy. I want to achieve my dream for her which is to become a police officer. I want to help make our village known and not forgotten by the world. I will also keep cleaning my village to make all people proud of our location. If I concentrate in my studies I can be successful in the future too, and make the government help kids like me, so they can achieve their dreams too. I hope for this day to come with pride and confidence in myself. My mother and I thank Rakhi and Project Help for making this happen in my life.

The mission of Project help India is to bring love, hope, dignity and purpose to the poor in India. In Vishal’s story see how his education, which comes packaged with love, care, nurture, a sense of belonging and being valued by his teacher and others, is changing his life.

Thank you to our supporters for your significant part in making this possible for Vishal and the many other children who attend one of our thirteen Project Help India education centres. As Desmond Tutu famously stated;

Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.

Village Parmawala and Rakhi with her class (below)

Love is in the Air

Sharing some photos of precious moments and big smiles when some of the student’s mothers visited our learning centres for Mothers’ Day. The children were very excited and there was a lot of love in the air. A huge shout out to our teachers who made all of this possible - you are the best, thank you!

A Mother's Hope (Bringing Hope: Pt 4)

On Mother's Day, we honour and celebrate the amazing mothers and women in our lives who love and sacrifice for us to flourish and live our best lives. Despite their differences, mothers around the world share a common hope for their children's future.

The stories of these four remarkable women remind us of this common bond, as they daily face extreme hardship due to poverty and limited resources. They worry about their children's future and recognise that education is key to a better life, free from hunger and desperation. Each of these mums is an inspiration and an example of the power of sacrificial love, resilience, strength and determination.

These mothers are grateful for the opportunity provided by a Project Help Education Centre, where their children receive not only an education but also safety, love, and nutritious daily meals.

This Mother's Day, we extend our heartfelt appreciation to the mothers of over 670 children who attend our centres five days a week. It is a privilege to care for and educate their children, and we will continue to do so with dedication and passion.

Anita hopes that her daughters will become literate and lead a good life

Anita Kaur, a mother of four daughters, faces financial and safety challenges due to her drug-addict husband in Katora, in the state of Punjab. Her hope for her daughters' education and future was reignited by Project Help's new school last November. Despite difficulties, the girls are excelling and receiving their first-ever school experience, giving Anita hope for a better life.

Pinki hopes that her children will have a better quality of life

Pinki, a mother of five daughters, lives in a dilapidated house without a roof in Kotdwara slum. Her husband is a daily wage labourer, and she struggles to provide for her family. However, Pinki has hope for her children's future through Project Help, hoping that quality education will change their lives for the better.

Poonam hopes that her children don't have to experience the same desperate struggles she has had to endure

Poonam, a mother of five, lives with her family in a small room without a roof in Bijnor in the state of Uttar Pradesh. Despite their struggles, Poonam and her husband work hard to provide for their family and ensure their children receive an education. Their hope is that their children can lead successful and happy lives, free from the struggles they have faced.

Umila hopes that her children will live a life that is safe and free from the negative effects of their father's addictions

Urmila and her family live in extreme poverty in the Kotdwara slum. Her husband's addiction and association with criminals often leads to domestic violence and leaves the family with no money for basic needs. Despite the challenges, Urmila dreams of providing her children with the best education and hopes that it will help break the cycle of violence and give them a better future.

Images from left to right - Anita, Pinki, Poonam and Umila

The Hope of a Mother - Anita's Story

Mrs. Anita Kaur, a 28-year-old mother of four daughters, lives in the village of Katora, Punjab where in Novemeber 22, Project Help India started a new school. Her daughters who attend our Centre are Mehkdeep (studying in 5th standard), Harpreet (studying in 4th standard), and Seerat (studying in 1st standard). The little one is too young to attend school yet.

Anita's husband is a drug addict who has started injecting, putting the children's safety at risk. Recently, there has been frequent fighting in the house over money. Whatever money her husband earns, he spends it all on drugs, leaving the household expenses to be covered by Anita's income, earned through working in people's homes. Running the household is a great difficulty for her, as the house is in a very poor and dirty condition, and the family does not get good food to eat. Anita is always living in fear because of her husband's addiction.

Anita was very concerned about her daughters' education and had been feeling hopeless about their future until she heard about the new Project Help Centre towards the end of last year. She started sending her daughter Mehkdeep to the centre, and our teachers invited the other sisters to also attend. The girls are very bright in studies, and this has been their first-ever school experience.

Anita hopes that her daughters will become literate and lead a good life. She once felt desperate with no hope, but the teachers at the centre have made her feel happy, especially when she drops her children off at the centre. Whenever she gets the chance, she loves to spend time with our teacher, Mrs. Seema, who encourages her in life and parenting.

The Hope of a Mother - Pinki's Story

This is the story of Pinki, a 35-year-old woman living in Kotdwara slum with her husband, Suraj, and their five daughters: Ritika (14), Deepika (13), Radhika (11), Durga (9), and Kanak (3). They live in a small, cracked house without a roof, and during the rainy season, water enters their home. Pinki uses a plastic sheet to cover their roof, and her children huddle in a corner, unable to sleep. It's a dire situation, and Pinki worries for the safety of her children.

Suraj is a daily wage labourer earning INR 3000 ($60AUS) per month, with irregular work. It's a challenge for Pinki to provide for their family. However, she encourages her children to attend Project Help's education centre, and they excel in their studies. Pinki believes that with a quality education, her children can have a better future and transform their lives.

Pinki said,

"Quality education will make a difference in my family and the future of my children. I have hope that my children will have a better quality of life."

The Hope of a Mother - Poonam's Story

Poonam is a mother to five children: Kashish, Mahi, Nikhil, Bulbul, and Rohan. Four of the siblings study at Project Help India's Bijnor Centre and are doing well in their studies. Despite their success, Poonam and her family live in a very small room that basically has no roof and is open to the elements. During the heavy rains of the Monsoon season, their room and kitchen flood, causing immense problems for the family.

Nevertheless, Poonam and her husband remain positive and resilient. They go to their work early in the morning and return late in the evening, working hard to provide for their family. Their only hope is that their children can become successful and happy through education. Poonam wants to ensure that her children don't have to experience the same struggles she has and can live a better life.

The Hope of a Mother - Urmila's Story

Urmila is from the Kotdwara slum, where she and her family struggle to survive in extreme poverty. They live in a cramped room that is only 10 by 10 square feet, along with her husband and their two sons, Abhishek and Aditya who attend the Project Help Slum Centre. Despite Abhishek's polio affecting his left leg and hand, both boys excel in their studies.

Urmila dreams of providing her children with the best education, clothing, and food possible. However, her husband's heavy drinking, drug use and association with local criminals often leads to domestic violence. Most often all of the family money is used to fund her husband’s habits, leaving Urmila to take odd jobs as a cleaner to feed and support her children.

Hope for tomorrow

Urmila's hope for her children is for them to live a life that is safe and free from the negative effects of their father's addiction. She recognises that her sons’ education can help break the cycle of violence and desperation that they experience. She hopes that if they are educated they can not be like their father to have all the happiness of the world, have good clothes and food because it breaks her heart that her boys often go hungry .

Hope Happens (Bringing Hope: Pt 3)

Meenakshi says that hope is happening all around her and it’s changing her life and her world.

We might talk about ‘bringing’ hope to others, but

how do we make it happen in the lives of the people around us? 

Here’s an inspiring story about hope finding its place in a marginalised slum community in Northern India – where a message of hope ignited a spark for a young girl to learn and to study, which changed her life and her family, and now impacts a new generation of children.

Meenakshi’s Story

Meenakshi is from a very poor family living in the Kotdwara slum community in Northern India. She is 22 years old and lives with her mother and younger brother. The family is presently mourning the loss of their father Mr Hukam Singh who suddenly died of a heart attack in March this year.

Hope happened quickly in Meenakshi’s life. When she decided to attend the Project Help India SHINE Women’s Empowerment Conference in 2017, she had little idea that her life would be transformed in such a powerful way.  Meenakshi first attended SHINE and she had never experienced anything like it. The room was filled with 500 women. Meenakshi was nervous and wondered what it was all about. She remembers with fondness the women from Australia who spoke about having belief in yourself. They spoke about the future and having inner strength and courage to achieve your dreams. Meenakshi did not think this was possible for a woman. But it was the Director, Daisy Samuel who shared her life story about being a girl in a remote mountain village, who despite great adversity, Daisy’s convictions and faith gave her the determination to achieve her dream of attending school and university. Daisy’s message about a woman’s individual ‘uniqueness’ inspired Meenakshi to learn and study. Meenkashi worked hard to pay for her tuition fees. Her mother also attended SHINE and she wanted her to succeed.

Earlier this year Meenakshi graduated from university with a Masters in Sociology, with plans to leave Kotdwara to find a good job. But then the family was hit with the news of their father’s death. Being the eldest child, Meenakshi would have to get work quickly and become the chief breadwinner in the family. Meenakshi went to Daisy for guidance. It turned out that at the same time, Project Help was looking for a new employee - a teacher and office administrator. You might be able to guess who got the job … Meenakshi!

Meenakshi now teaches slum kids from her community. She knows many of the parents and understands the challenges they face. She cannot believe how she is now doing something that she never dreamt was possible. That first seed of hope that was planted in her heart and mind at SHINE in 2017 has grown, and Meenakshi says it is now her turn to bring hope to needy people and children.

Meenakshi has attended every SHINE Conference since 2017. She cannot believe that next time she will not be a delegate, but rather a member of the Project Help team, that brings this powerful message of hope to a crowded hall of women …she can’t wait!

Meenakshi says that hope is happening all around her and it’s changing her life and her world.