We’re Showing Up This Father’s Day
Father’s Day is almost here.
Across Australia, families will gather around breakfast tables, phone Dad, give him a gift or simply find a way to say, “Thank you for everything you do.”
This year at Project Help India, we want to say thank you to some fathers too.
They are men most of us will never meet. They live thousands of kilometres away, in communities where poverty makes the ordinary responsibilities of fatherhood extraordinarily difficult.
Yet they keep showing up.
A father’s hope
Ravi is 34 and has four children.*
He lives with chronic health problems and pain, yet works whenever he can as a labourer alongside a mason. His family has no agricultural land, no permanent employment and just one room to call home.
There are times when even getting to work becomes impossible.
But when Ravi talks about his children, his attention turns not to what he lacks, but to what might still be possible for them.
His eldest daughter attends a Project Help India Education Centre.
Ravi told our team:
“We remained like this and became illiterate, but if our children study, their life can improve.”
There is something profoundly fatherly in those words.
I may not have had the opportunity. But perhaps my children can.
When your family needs you
Then there is Harjit.*
His health frequently lets him down. He experiences recurring illness, weakness and pain, yet whenever his body allows, he drives an auto-rickshaw to earn money for his family. He and his wife live with their two children in one small room beneath an ageing and unsafe roof. His children attend one of our Education Centres.
Harjit's dream for them is wonderfully ordinary: that they might be healthy, educated and able to build a more secure life than his own.
So he keeps showing up.
And sometimes, Dad is Dadaji (Grandpa)
Gurdeep is an elderly grandfather who has experienced tremendous loss.*
After the death of his son, and later his wife, much of the responsibility for supporting his family and grandchildren fell to him.
At an age when many people would expect to slow down, Gurdeep gets up and drives his auto-rickshaw from morning until evening. His eight-year-old granddaughter attends a Project Help India Education Centre. She is bright, cheerful and loves learning.
Behind that little girl is a grandfather determined to keep her safe, fed and learning.
Gurdeep keeps showing up too.
This Father’s Day, we’re showing up for them
We know these fathers because we know their children.
Their children walk through the doors of our Education Centres. We teach them. Encourage them. Watch them grow. And alongside their parents and grandparents, we keep a caring eye on their future.
So this Father’s Day, Project Help India wants to do something simple.
We want to show up.
For A$150, we can deliver a Father’s Day hamper to one of six families containing approximately one month of non-perishable foodstuffs, together with some simple personal-care items for Dad.
We’ll also include a personalised Father’s Day card from Project Help India.
And if you would like, your own message can be included in that card.
Perhaps Dad doesn't need another Father’s Day present this year.
Perhaps one of the most meaningful gifts you could give him is to honour him by standing alongside another father who is doing everything he can for his family.
Six fathers. Six families. A$150 each. Our Father’s Day goal is A$900.
Can you show up with us this Father’s Day?
To donate, please make a gift of A$150 through the Project Help India donation page, selecting or noting “Father’s Day hamper” if that option is available. If you would like to contribute a different amount, every gift will still help us support these families.
Once you have donated, please reply directly to me to let me know. If you would like to write a message to the father and his family, please include your message in your reply. We will add it to the personalised Father’s Day card included with the hamper.
For example, you could write:
I’ve made a donation and would like to send a message to the father and his family. My message is: “[insert your message here].”
And if these stories stir you to do something beyond Father’s Day, A$55 a month supports a child to attend one of Project Help India’s 14 Education Centres.
More than 600 children are currently connected with our centres, and behind so many of those children are families facing the same daily realities of poverty, insecure work and limited opportunity.
Education gives us the opportunity to keep showing up—not just for one day, but month after month.
This Father’s Day, please help us to celebrate the dads who keep showing up by showing up for them.
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